UPDATE: I made some changes to my clickers a few weeks ago. Nothing drastic, but I think added ~1 click to low-speed compression in both the front and the rear. I am traveling for the next 4 weeks, so I cannot post the exact click counts, sorry. The previous click settings in this thread are still a good baseline, IMO. But I owe an update!
Your base settings are pretty much right on.
The problem is playing with the tyre pressures
and the clickers does not remove the 20 kg
this bike is overweight.